If you are new to the word Gor, reading up might be a good thing to do before entering any of the rooms.
Gorean chat sites are not a good place to discuss work or children's misbehaviors. The only way to truly become a part of this unusual world is to allow yourself to be submerged into it.
You will find those here are quite involved in keeping to their Gorean persona. These are theme rooms, and their rules and structures are unlike any other. Gorean Masters don't cuddle and get all mushy with Their slaves. If that is what you are seeking, the world of Gor will definitely not meet your needs.
Please refrain from judging that which you do not understand. If you are offended by what is considered acceptable practice within the realm of Gor, you will need to find a place more suited to your values in another area.
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